Thursday, September 17, 2009

Avoid Medical Mistakes - USE YOUR VOICE!!


Most of you know we went to the hospital this month for a “routine” surgery. Since I’ve been at this awhile now – overseeing hospital staff as they provide care for my son, I’ve learned that you just cannot “trust” the system and that everything happening to you is correct, or the way it is supposed to be. I told you we were nearly dismissed without having been given a FEVER BLOCK, the WRONG DOSE of heparin to lock the mediport long term, and if I hadn’t used my parent voice and stood up for what was happening… we also would be in line for a new, unnecessary mediport surgery.

Listen to what your “gut” is telling you, and don’t let nurses or even the doctor bully you… YOU are the parent, YOU have the final decision on any medical care… they can only make recommendations and suggest a plan of care. Nobody knows your child better than YOU do… you know when something just isn’t “right” – that’s the little voice in your head you need to listen to. I’m not saying be a hypochondriac, but trust in your instincts as a mother/parent! This advice is not only for mothers and parents - but for ANYONE who has a family member in need of a medical procedure - there are no stupid questions to ask of your medical staff, and remember that YOU are in charge of the situation.

This poor mother was not persistent with the medical staff, and a medical mistake cost her the life of her child. You know that we too have been there, and a machine malfunction nearly killed Braden last fall. Looks like a good book – here is the review. http://online.wsj.com/article/SB10001424052970203706604574378762626910076.html

I have just felt this little nudge to share our story, so that your family will never be a victim of a medical mistake.

Wednesday, September 16, 2009

Surgery Cultures back - another infection

As is customary with a bronchoscope, they do this thing they call a bronchial wash, or a bronchial gavage - which basically means they squirt some saline in their, suck it out, and run cultures on it. Once again, Braden is fighting yet another infection. He has a STREP infection and a H influenza A (not related to seasonal or swine flu) that they are treating with another 10 days of the omnicef (yay for more red, runny, messy diapers)... and a new nebulized medication - colistin, used to treat cystic fibrosis patients and those with Pseudomonis. The colistin has to be mailed to us, as only a specialty pharmacy carries it(and none in Baton Rouge do), so it's a game with the doctor to fill out the pre-auth form, the insurance to "review" it for 24 - 48 hours, then shipping time once all the approvals go through. We hope to have it in-hand for early next week...

But we still get to keep the little guy at home and daycare, as he is not contagious. He has been very cranky, and this probably explains why... as he's been crying at times when we're not changing his shirt or diaper and getting the fake leave me alone cry... it's a cry that means his tummy or throat are hurting him. So lots of extra cuddles for our little patient... funny how they get so cuddly when they don't feel good and just find that comfort in being held. Makes you feel important.

Locally, anyone who would like a flyer for the fall fundraiser for Braden's Medical Fund... let me know and I can e-mail it back to you. (klwilson@lsu.edu) Kodi's Kitchen will be serving up 4 different kinds of soups and 4 different desserts!

Love to all - thanks for the prayers and keep them coming! Hope your fall is going well.

Braden, Kodi, Brad

Thursday, September 10, 2009

Surgery Recap


Daddy teaching Braden how to use the new igun iphone application...


So the day started off OK, and things went pretty smooth during the bronchoscope, and we found out a few things we had kind of already expected. First, we knew from the sonogram Dr. Thomas did in the office that there was some internal granulation tissue in the trach area... and the bronchoscope confirmed that Braden has a little flap of skin that gets irritated by the trach tube. He also injured himself at the end of the trach tube, which we think happens when he has a sneezing fit or accidentally presses on the tubing towards himself. Well this little scratch just wasn't healing - and everytime we were suctioning it was like ripping that scab open with the airjets pulling in the mucus... so for now our instructions are to go in one less CM for suctioning, and to put extra gauze around the trach to back it out a little bit for about 2 weeks to let that internal scratch heal.

The doc also discovered that Braden has like an extra muscle flap in his trach area... kind of complicated to explain, so we will at a later date when we are ready to address how we will "fix" this in the future. But for now all it means is that we will not be putting in the newer inflatable trach cuff until we address this issue.

We will be waiting for biopsy results and share results next week, if there is any news to share. We only anticipate having to treat yet another bacterial infection if anything - no big deal.

So, as in our world, nothing is without incident... the anesthesia team could not access his mediport. And once again our requests to bring someone in from hemoc to access it were ignored (hemoc - hemotology/oncology... the work a LOT with mediports). So they could not access him. This lead our doc to believe the port was blocked or not working. They sent us down to radiology/x-ray to see if the port was positioned OK, and then brought in someone from hemoc to access him (PRAISE GOD, AND SHE GOT IT!!) so that they could shoot a dye into the bloodstream and see if there were any blockages... nothing they could see right away - YAY!! Now we know that we just need to find a home nurse with hemoc experience and things will be much better for Braden in the long run.

So after a very long day and an additional unexpected procedure... we can say it was a successful day. I want to encourage any of you who aren't "regulars" to ask lots of questions and trust your instincts as you go throughout the day. I'm glad we paid attention - they almost forgot his fever block medication if we hadn't asked, and they almost didn't heplock his mediport with the correct dosage either - so they had to redo it before we de-accessed the port! It just got me to thinking how many families probably go through the whole experience and trust that everything happening to them is just fine... if we hadn't asked questions, Braden would NOT be "just fine"!! SO don't be afraid to ask questions throughout the whole process - you have a right to know why they are doing things:-)

Normally Braden takes about two days to shake off the grogginess of anesthesia... but yesterday he was bright and alert in post-op. He has avoided a fever and heavy swelling thus far. Brad was not surprised that when he came home, we had done nothing but snuggle since getting home. But he definitely noticed just how snuggly Braden was when helping put him to bed, and said he understood why we didn't do anything else! He was SO lovey and sing-songey too... it was the perfect end to a very long day at the hospital. Just when I started to wonder if this was a false beginning, I went to get the mail - and a FROG crossed my path! God or grandpa letting me know that everything will be JUST FINE if we just rely on God! And so we did...

We will post an update next week regarding the biopsy.
Braden, Brad & Kodi

Monday, September 07, 2009

Labor Day Weekend 09






Well, we took it easy this weekend and cleaned up around the house. We had some friends over for a bbq yesterday to enjoy some down time and socialization before we head to surgery on Wednesday. It was nice to spend time with friends to socialize and just hang out. Thanks to gram for the cool shirts!

We went to the frog pool in the back yard this afternoon - as it was the first hint of sun we've had since Thursday. Braden really enjoyed himself and really relaxed - enough for a first - poopie in the pool. Oh the joys of parenting... but he's on such strong antibiotics right now, I guess we were silly not to expect it:-) Oh well, the pool got antibacterial cleaning so it can dry and go into storage for another year. And bubba and mommy both got really good baths, and now it's back to relaxing before the big day Wednesday.

Thanks to all for the prayers I know you will be making on his behalf, and ours. We will try to post updates via facebook if you'd like to keep up with our progress. Thanks for all the support!

Braden, Brad & Kodi

Wednesday, September 02, 2009

It's that time of year - our Gustav Anniversary!


So our friend Kami from Oregon sent this MOST ADORABLE little frog for Braden.

We have some news to share on his health status.

As you know, he's been fighting the bronchitis which has seemed to clear up with the medications we are almost finished with. But we did suspect there was something going on with his trach area, as he seemed sensitive in that area, and more agitated than his usual "leave me alone" huffiness.

Doc found he has an ear infection, which likely explains the grumpiness that seems elevated. So we are on new antibiotics for that.

He also found that after doing a sonogram on Braden's trach, that there is some internal granulation tissue that will need to be removed. When we go for the bronchoscope and this procedure, we will also put in the new fancy trach tube to try.

As we "celebrate" the anniversary of Gustav, we are reminded just how much our little boy is a fighter for his life - as we remember doing resuscitation on him 16 times when we were evacuated from the storm, relegated to a small closet where we could find power for his machines. We choose to CELEBRATE Braden's life on this anniversary remembrance!! This also marks a one-year anniversary since we were admitted to the hospital too!! (Granted, we did get a re-admit when the ventilator failed... but we don't count that as a Braden admit, that was a machine malfunction admit). We've managed to treat a pneumonia and a bronchitis AT HOME this past year, but have managed to escape the confines of the OLOL PICU.

Thanks for checking on us!
Braden and his parents

UPDATE 9/3: SURGERY SET FOR WEDNESDAY TO REMOVE INNER TRACH GRANULATION TISSUE - PLEASE SAY EXTRA PRAYERS THIS DAY!!

Monday, August 24, 2009

A weekend trip to the ER

Well, Braden has been getting usual August "junkiness" that he gets this time of year. WHile we tried to get into the pulmonologist for 2 days wtih no avail, we went to the pediatrician who helped us decide we'd better go to the ER so we can get a chest x-ray, cbc, blood gas, and cultures started, since going through the weekend would have meant we'd probably end up there anyways.

So we started him on some antibiotics. Chest xray was inconclusive, but slight elevations in his heart rate, temperature and other tests gave the doc enough to go on and call it bronchitis/pre-pneumonia stage. Today we are still waiting for doctor directons, as we know his cultures were growing things, but we might not be on the right meds, according to the pediatrician.

To make things worse Friday, when the home nurse came, for the third month in a row she had much difficulty accessing Braden's port, even after sticking him 3 times. She said she thought it might be clogged - but my gut was telling me she's not comfortable enough with his port to really determine that. My instincts proved true when the hospital oncology nurses accessed it on their first try (PRAISE GOD - THANK YOU!!).

So we are spending lots of time doing extra treatments and he seems to have perked up a little, but we are watching him close. The doctors orders may change and require a new direction, but for now we are treating him at home.

Keep praying, and thanks for the ones you've also sent up on his behalf. Please say extra prayers for AUNT SHALA who goes in for kidney surgery WEDNESDAY for a stint to make it work again.

Thanks for the continued love, prayers, and support - we thank you and love you all for it!!

KB2

Saturday, August 15, 2009

New School Year, New Problems






So while working at LSU has its advantages, it also has its pitfalls. Brad and I were certain to see furloughs, however as we stand on the pendulum platform that is the Louisiana Legislature, for now has swung back over to prevent staff furloughs, for now.

In Braden's world... things are also just as shaky. His health is pretty good, but of course we are experiencing the usual August yuckiness that comes with the stickiness of the heavy air and oppressive humidity. The shakiness is at the same mercy our jobs are, to the "great" state of Louisiana. But we are still blessed, and finally have pics to share of Braden in his new bath chair that therapist Gayla snagged for us - THANK YOU MISS GAYLA!!

A terrible tragedy occurred here this summer, when a local daycare left a child in a van on a hot day, and the child did not live. While this daycare had been cited many times before for various violations, the state is now trying to avoid liabilities... and has therefore created a state-wide "crackdown" on all licensed daycares. While we are in full support of efforts to ensure child safety, we are quickly learning that some of the policies that were once enforced, are now once again coming into the picture, and some of them do not make any sense at all.

Kidz Korner, where Braden goes, as most of you know has been one of about 40 daycares we contacted in Baton Rouge that did NOT break the laws by ourightly refusing to serve a special needs family. While there is no state agency out there enforcing daycares to uphold federal disability rights law, they certainly have policies in place to make things incredibly difficult for the few out there who do the right thing.

So now we are a family in action to once again stand up for the rights of parents everywhere, not just special needs families. The DSS office in LA is attempting to dictate exactly HOW we choose to administer medicine to Braden. CAN YOU BELIEVE THIS?? Now I'm no lawyer, but I do have common sense - does this seem right to you? How can ANYONE other than his parents determine how my child is medically treated? Even his doctors can only offer recommendations, and it's our choice as parents how to treat our child. So now we've rattled the cages at Dept of Social Services who is over licensing of daycares, plan on getting the Dept of Health & Hospitals involved, and have put in calls to advocacy groups and family law/rights attorneys.

DSS is saying that we must bring Braden's entire medicine cabinet to daycare every day, so that she can administer his medication. Since Braden was born, we as a family decided that only one person a day would ever administer medication, for Braden's protection to ensure his safety. This way it could help prevent any accidental overdosing or underdosing. Not fool-proof, but less chance of accidental medication issues.

And when you look at the photos I've attached, note that this is Braden's medication for ONE DAY, and does not include his nebulized medications with his vest therapy in the mornings and evenings. Can you imagine the ADDITIONAL liability LaTacia would face if she were to administer these daily? The state says that there policy is to "protect" her.

But let me give you a real-life scenario about why this scares me to my core: if Braden had ADD or ADHD, it would be OUR CHOICE as his parents to medicate, or not to medicate. A friend of mine has two children, one with ADD and another with ADHD. When in the care of another, these children each had their own medication to take, and the caregiver accidentally gave the wrong one to one of the kids! Now this incident did not have detrimental life-threatening results... but in a case of an epileptic, medication mix-ups can have detrimental results! Now the state wants to tell me that my childcare provider needs to administer Braden's 11+ medications and try not to get the dosage and times mixed up when she's running a daycare?

So we will keep you posted on the outcome of our newest fight with the state of Louisiana, and the existence of policies and procedures that were designed by folks with NO medical background, NO special needs experience, and NO understanding of the additional stress and strain they are going to put on families who are barely hanging on as it is. I fear that until we have more lawmakers living with special needs children, our nation will continue to ignore the hell their laws put these families through just trying to survive and get by.

For now, just pray that we will be able to break through the walls of ignorance, misunderstanding, uneducation of reality, and unreasonable policies that exist... and pray for our strength to mount a fight that just might parallel David vs Goliath. We thank you for your continued support and prayers!!

The Wilson family,
Brad, Kodi & Braden

Sunday, August 02, 2009

Getting in the last of summer




Well mommy left the boys for another work trip - this time to NYC. She got a little personal time too: saw "Chicago" on Broadway, had dinner with current and former students, and took in a few more sites of the city. Daddy and Braden got some good quality time just hanging out.

We are getting all our therapy evals taken care of right now, so that Braden will be set up for school... and private therapy will come see him right at the daycare!! So we are excited to get all of that set up. We also recently took bloodwork to check his epileptic medicine levels, as Braden is experiencing more than normal grand mal seizures, and it really upsets him afterwards... because he has grown so much, we have added an additional dose of that medication. It will probably take a few weeks to see any change in his seizure activity.

Braden got a pair of shoes for school, since we don't get to buy him a uniform:-) So he got his first pair of light-up Skechers that light up like police lights, and mommy got him an official NYPD t-shirt to go with them! Daddy, as most of you can guess, got his own NYPD baseball cap. We will share another update soon... these pictures are of Braden in his brand new comfy bean-bag chair... and one of him with his new froggie friend from the Shedd Aquarium.

Any extra prayers you can spare right now, we will appreciate them. We think that a few good and decent people in the State of LA have taken and interest in Braden's case, and if all things go well, he might FINALLY get some state assistance... so please, please, please send up those prayers - we really need the help!!

Love to all - the Wilson family

Sunday, July 26, 2009

Vacation in Missouri & Kansas - part 2






Sorry the post took so long... mommy has been busy traveling.

The rest of our trip was spent in Western KS with the Betschart Family... we spent time with Aunt Shala and Cousin Paxton, and time in Ashland with Gram, Papa, Aunt Jenny, Uncle Shane, Cousins Peyton & Ethan... and uncle Cody and cousin Lance made it to KS for a quick visit too. We spent Independence Day in Ashland for the kids parade, the turtle races, the duckie derby and hanging out. We spent the evening popping fireworks with Shala & Paxton.

It was a very nice trip, and we really enjoyed our time with family.

Then we headed to Oklahoma University to do some training with the newspaper sales staff before heading home to Louisiana.

I will post more on my trips later - so enjoy the pics for now!
Kodi

Thursday, June 25, 2009

Vacation in Missouri & Kansas - part 1





So, nothing is ever BORING around the Wilson household, as most of you already know. The evening before we took off, mommy was sterilizing the custom trach tube ($300), while she and daddy were getting the van packed for the trip. Well, we forgot to set a timer, and voila - here's what NOT to do, ever. The obturator is completely melted, but mommy was able to salvage the trach tube, minus a few special "not hand-blown" bubbles where the tubing will attach. Another special needs first - I guess we are always blazing new trails. Maybe we should start the book on what NOT to do:-)

We made our first night in St. Louis. By the way, if you are ever in need of a hotel, DO NOT STAY at the Best Western St. Louis Inn. While the staff was super-friendly and helpful, the accommodations are lacking, to say the least. While in the bathroom, I felt a dripping on my arm... the bathroom ceiling was coming down on us! (This was after I requested someone please come clean the toilet - it was gross). So we got moved to another room, and the new bathroom had black mold on the ceiling, and black mold in the shower to match. How these people can charge a rack rate of $140 a night without a smirk on their faces while they take your money is really beyond me...

We made it to St. Joseph, MO without much trouble... but it wasn't long before the excitement began. We arrived at the Patee household to see the extended family to celebrate a joint Father's Day. But within 20 minutes, daddy went to check on parts of Braden's set-up only to find that his trach tube had come out... no alarms on the vent, no alarms on the pulse-ox - meaning that Braden can hold his own for a time being, which is the good news. The bad news is that after 4 tries, the old trach would not go in, we made the call to St. Joe paramedics, who arrived just in time for us to try the smaller trach size, and daddy got it in on the 3rd try at a funky angle - but it worked - praise God!! The paramedics were there for "moral support" and to help us get Braden at the right angle so daddy could make a good attempt at getting the trach in... we are just so thankful that our training kicked in and we knew what to do!

We spent a few calmer days in St. Joe with the Patee and Wilson grandparents, and Brad's brother Brian, his wife Jenny, and their son Carter flew in from Denver for a long weekend with us. We had dinner Father's Day evening with Wilson extended family, Monday night was treated to dinner at the local Cajun/LSU restaurant so we could watch the first of three games for the College World Series for LSU to take on TX and we won the first game. Tuesday we learned to play "The Farming Game" (circa 1979) and enjoyed family time.

Wednesday we made our way down to Wichita... mommy had to head to bed early not feeling well, and hope the Tigers would win without her cheering them on. They did win the national title - Geaux Tigers. Today mommy was slow out of the gate but feeling better, but Braden was not feeling his usual and slept pretty much all day except for a visit downstairs with more family tonight for a BBQ. Spending good time with Brad's brother Scott, his other brother Brent, his wife Bry, and son Koehn. (Ko-en) Looking forward to more time with friends and family this week... so more details are coming.

Thanks for checking in on us and our travels... seen five states so far this trip - three more to go before it's all over.

Brad, , Kodi & Braden

Saturday, June 13, 2009

"New" Chair, Swimming & Daycare Daycamp






Well, it's been a frenzied but fantastic week in the Wilson household!

First, our AMAZING therapist and friend Gayla, with the help and advice of our friend Doris, Braden now has a great wheelchair! A client of hers donated it, and we were the lucky recipients!! The local provider is working with us to make all the needed adjustments, so this will be a fully functional chair that will hold his equipment AND roll right into a newer van and strap right into the van as his car chair -when we can finally afford to look for a newer one, complete with a handicap ramp.

Gayla also brought us a bath chair - which is GREAT news since the insurance company denied us for one. I know you are all surprised about that one. We cannot wait to try it!

Last weekend we took Braden into his own baby pool - he really enjoyed it, once he finally relaxed, he really got relaxed enough to fall asleep and even snore in the pool!

Braden's daycare, Kidz Korner is having daycamp, and he even gets to spend a little time with the kids in their main play area! The kids were so excited, because he normally spends the day in the baby room. And Braden took a really good nap after watching TV in the playroom and hanging out with the kids.

This week we prepare for our long trip home, we will be on the road for two weeks and two days visiting family all over Missouri and Kansas. We hope to update during our trip, if we are able.

Hope your summer is going well!
The Wilsons

Monday, June 08, 2009

Making Front Page News


Here is the story from the front page of the local paper this morning!! YAY for awareness and change is coming!!!!
http://www.2theadvocate.com/news/47170532.html?showAll=y&c=y

Hurricane plan involves special-needs children

Parents argue with state over shelters, hospitals



BILL FEIG
From left, Brad Wilson, his 3-year-old son Braden, and his wife Kodi sit in Braden’s bedroom, surrounded by the medical machines and devices that must be powered for Braden to live. The Baton Rouge couple had problems during Hurricane Gustav last year in getting help with their special-needs child.


STORY BY STEVEN WARD
PUBLISHED JUNE 8, 2009

The state Department of Health and Hospitals has implemented a new plan to address the needs of children dependent on medical technology in case of a loss of power during hurricane season, department Secretary Alan Levine said.

The new plan is a response to problems some families had during Hurricane Gustav in accessing medical help for their toddlers who use ventilators to breathe.
“I can tell you this. I have the phone number of every hospital CEO in the state in my Blackberry. I will do whatever it takes to make sure a technology-dependent child is taken care of,” Levine said.

Two Baton Rouge families had problems finding a place for their special-needs children during Gustav, leading them to lobby the state for a special medical needs shelter or a designated hospital.

Joe and Bridget Wallace had problems in August finding a place to bring their then-15-month-old son, William, in the days leading up to Gustav’s strike on Baton Rouge.

William Wallace cannot breathe without a ventilator and has gone though numerous surgeries, suffers from cerebral palsy and bronchial pulmonary disease, has a full tracheotomy, suffered brain hemorrhages and seizures, and is nourished through a feeding tube, his parents said.

Kodi and Brad Wilson, employees of LSU, said their then-2-year-old son, Braden, suffers from Leigh’s disease, a rare neurometabolic disorder that affects the central nervous system.

At the time of Gustav, Braden couldn’t survive without oxygen and air conditioning, his mother said.

In the days leading up to Gustav and right after, Kodi Wilson said, she had to resuscitate her son six times because he stopped breathing. (Parents note - it was actually SIXTEEN TIMES that we did this!!)

Four days after Gustav, Braden had to have a tracheotomy and was put on a ventilator to breathe.

Like the Wallaces, there were no special-needs shelters or hospitals that would take the Wilsons’ son before he was eventually admitted to a local hospital.

Kodi Wilson said she was so upset, she put together a petition with more than 40 signatures and wrote a letter to the state’s first lady, Supriya Jindal, asking for the state to assist all special-needs children and their families during emergencies.
Kodi Wilson said she never received a response.

Melissa Sellers, Gov. Bobby Jindal’s press secretary, said she checked with the first lady’s staff and they did not have the letter or petition.

In a written statement e-mailed to The Advocate, Sellers wrote, “DHH Secretary Alan Levine has worked to develop an improved plan for this hurricane season that will provide needed care for families with special-needs children. “Our absolute top priority during a hurricane is the safety and well-being of all Louisianians, especially those who have special health needs.”

Levine said every family with a technology-dependent child should have its own emergency plan in place in case power is lost. The Wilsons and Wallaces said their families now have generators — purchased at a cost of thousands of dollars. The Wilsons purchased their generator with the help of their church.

If a family receives assistance from a home health agency, that agency is required to have an emergency plan filed with the parish office of emergency preparedness as well as DHH, Levine said.

If those plans fail, families should call 211, Levine said. Operators
will transfer those calls directly to a state triage team of nurses,
hospital officials and home health agency workers.

The triage team will be set up at the state’s emergency operation center, the same place Levine and Gov. Jindal will be during a hurricane or other state emergency.
Once the triage team assesses the needs of the child, state officials will act, whether it’s getting certain supplies to the child or transporting the child to a hospital.

Unlike last year, Levine said, there are participating hospitals across the state that are part of this new emergency plan.

Levine said he does not want to name the hospitals before the emergency because state officials don’t want the families to all show up at one particular hospital.
“That could create a capacity problem. We want to do this in an organized manner and give the new system a chance to work,” Levine said.

Joe Wallace, a registered nurse, and Kodi Wilson said they wish the state would set up a special shelter where families could go just to “plug in” power cords to medical equipment for their children.

Levine said the state decided against a specific special-needs shelter.
“Too many things can go wrong at a shelter,” he said. “Many of the children would do better in a hospital.”

Levine also said the state is finalizing plans to work with private vendors to open pediatric day-care facilities for special-needs children. He said the plan is to have those facilities open by the start of next hurricane season.
But it may be too late for the Wilson family.

After what they went through last year, Kodi Wilson said, her family will probably leave Louisiana at some point.

“We don’t have other family here. We’re from Kansas. We just felt alone. We are not asking for a handout, just some help,” Kodi Wilson said.

Sunday, May 31, 2009

Single Dad this week



Well, Daddy is the hero around the house this weekend. Braden's pulse-ox machine went down again, but much more major than recent issues. We have the new one on order... but as our luck would have it, it is on back order, so we are trying to make this one work as long as possible. After last night's malfunction, we met the old provider at the office for a back-up to keep until Braden's new one finally comes in. At least we will breathe a little easier while mommy heads off for a short conference this week in Raleigh, NC.

We hope to put Braden in a baby pool tonight so he too can enjoy some of the warm weather and get to enjoy one of his favorite relaxing things to do - floating in the pool.

Braden got to hang out in the living room with us for awhile yesterday, and then he showed us how much of a big boy he is and can relax watching TV all by himself.

We have lots of doctor's appointments to make this month since we are now three - it's time to check in with everyone. Plus our new trach tube is in, and we have to do that in the office. It's the one that's supposed to help with all the secretions, but might also take away Braden's ability to "hum" or "talk"... so we will have some new challenges too.

We hope your summer is beginning well. We are preparing for a long trip home at the end of the month. Thanks for checking in on us.

Braden, mommy & daddy

Braden "talking"

Wednesday, May 20, 2009

The little buddies

Braden looking at the lights above his bed...



Tickle fight!!!


Are you boys riding a roller coaster and screaming??? :-)



So it's been a crazy week around here... but finally getting to post. These pictures are Braden with his namesake, our godson Brandon. These two characters already have such a connection - notice the EXACT SAME expression in the one photo. Then the other one looks like he's tickling Brandon and making him laugh.

Braden made his debut turning three with his first three-year-old fit (he even kicked mommy!!)... here is a link to the youtube video:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=06Ql3QvuBC4

We've had some major drama with his pulse-ox lately that we are trying to sort out. Rest assured, our personal Braden-angel Staci has a new one on it's way and soon all will be right with his equipment once again. Pulmonary Care Specialists, Inc. is our personal little wish-granter right here on earth - they are truly FANTASTIC!! Anyone who needs affordable pedia-sure and affordable equipment because your insurance company is as ridiculous as ours is... please write me and I will send their contact info. She can ship anywhere!! So even if you are not here in LA... and need a better provider - I will send her info.

Hope you are all well... mommy got some bad and good news. Good news is no surgery, but the bad news is yet another disk has torn and another new one is bulging, creating a lot of pain... we are hoping a few weeks of PT will get her back on track and avoid injections and epidurals and such. Extra prayers are appreciated.

Daddy is busy at work as usual, but finding lots of time for Braden and helping mommy more too.

Check back soon...
Braden, Mommy & Daddy

Sunday, May 10, 2009

Happy Mother's Day




Well, we spent Mother's Day with our friends the Heckerts who hosted a Mother's Day crawfish boil. It was nice to spend time with friends and just relax!

It's been a rough week with mommy's back having lots of problems again, so much pain even prevented her from changing Bubba's diaper:-( Mommy's back has been getting better VERY slowly with the help of oral steroids and pain meds. She had and MRI this past week, and we hope to have a plan of action for full recovery later this week.

Daddy has been busy playing with some new technology. He made a neat slideshow (online scrapbook) with the photos from Baby Bee's birthday party. Here is the link for you to enjoy:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s9kW6nSmNnc&feature=related

Then he found a way to create a collage of Braden videos. Here is the link to the one he did for Mother's Day, which was Braden's first days... he was so tiny!!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ne31iQ1oEcw

I hope you all had a wonderful weekend, tell you moms how much you love them - they never get tired of hearing it:-) I included a pic of a poem-type thing about special needs parents that was sent to me, and thought it was appropriate to share with all of you.

Thanks for checking in on us,
The Wilson's

Monday, April 27, 2009

Birthday Bash Recap

Nana Debby & Nicole say hello to Braden at his party...
Braden gets a taste of his birthday cupcakes

Braden holds on to his epilepsy balloon


Jackson sports his visor and bumblebee pin



Bumblebee cupcakes


Well this weekend was a lot of fun. Mommy's best friend from college flew in for Braden's birthday, and so did Nana and Grandpa Wilson!! Saturday was filled with lots of fun and celebration at the Seize the Day Walk for Epilepsy and a celebration of our special little boy's THIRD BIRTHDAY!!

We took out Baby Bee's team dressed in bumblebee visors and wearing bumblebee pins as we took our "fun walk". Then it was to the race tent city with free drinks and jambalaya, recognition of all who walked with epilepsy, and a memory balloon release for a recent epilepsy family loss. Then it was off to Mike the Tiger's habitat for some bbq, bumblebee cupcakes, and fellowship and friendship. We were joined by MANY friends, including the only other local family we know with a child with Leigh's... six-year-old survivor Julianna and her baby brother Stephen and parents Stephanie & Glen. Mommy and daddy were so busy socializing - I think they forgot to take pictures at the actual birthday party! Oops. But daddy did put together a great montage from the walk and the day on youtube... the link is: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s9kW6nSmNnc&feature=email

THANK YOU to everyone who came out to support Braden, who sent cards or gifts or medical fund donations - we so appreciate everything you do for us!!

One last thing... I think we've decided that from now on we will ALSO be celebrating half birthday's, since we don't know just how many more God will choose to bless us with. So we might actually be starting an annual fundraiser just for Braden around that time in late October.

Enjoy the pics from the birthday bash... please take note that little Jackson didn't pull his hat off just for Braden!
Braden, Kodi, & Brad

Friday, April 24, 2009

Big day tomorrow...Saturday 4/25

Our guests are here and we are getting ready for a day of walking, celebrating, and enjoying being around our boy. Check back for pics and commentary from the big weekend. Thank you to those that are supporting us with the walk and each and everyday.

BRADLEY

Monday, April 20, 2009

All's well...

Thank you to everyone that has sent emails and text messages about checking in our boy. The docs were all smiles after his procedure.

Kodi hasn't been able to post because she is having "technical difficulty" aka her lap top went to heaven and she erased her account on here in the process. Any way, we'll get her back up and running in no time.

We are getting ready for the big weekend. B's party, the walk, nana/papa in town, auntie nic in town, and perhaps during all this we will find time to rest.

We will have plenty to share next week.

BRADLEY

Tuesday, April 07, 2009

Headed in for small surgery in the am

We are just asking for extra prayers for the bronchoscope tomorrow morning. It should be routine, but you know our Braden. Anethesia has not always been our friend, and it's not good for Leigh's patients either. And there is a slight possibility we will have problems with the mediport again.

Just send up your prayers on his behalf, we thank you and will update you tomorrow afternoon as soon as we are able.

Brad, Kodi & Braden

Thursday, March 19, 2009

Busy Time - Healing Fine - SIGN UP


So we found out Braden had THREE different tracheal infections that we are continuing to treat with inhaled meds and added an oral (okay, really g-tube) antibiotic too. But we THANK YOU, GOD for being so good, and letting us keep him OUT of the hospital this time around. Braden is pretty normal for not feeling well, just a little more sleepy than usual, and a little more touchy about being "handled"... otherwise I don't think we'd even know. We go for our bronchial scope the second week in April, so we will know a lot more about this new kind of trach tube and if Braden has any granulation tissue around the stoma which could be the culprit of infection. We will post a reminder, as we will need LOTS of prayers going in, as he will have to be sedated, and as if we don't have enough to worry about, we are having a lot of problems with his medi-port. This could mean an additional surgery and multiple needle sticks:-(

Some good news, Braden's Great-grandpa James got to go home after a bout of intestinal issues.
Also, our Godson Brandon Jermaine (named in honor of Braden) was born last week and is healthy and happy at home - we will try to get some pics to post soon... and Braden had another cousin born on St. Patty's Day - Ethan Roger, also healthy and gets to go home today.

So we are getting ready for Braden's birthday next month, hosted at the Seize the Day Walk for Epilepsy of LA. If you'd like to support his team or join TEAM BRADEN WILSON, you can log on at: http://www.epilepsylouisiana.org and click on "start a team", "Agree" to the terms, and then click "Join a team" and select "Braden Wilson" in the pull-down menu. We will be doing the 1K fun walk at 8:30 that morning, joining the whole group for awards and some food and snowcones while the band plays - who I have been told will be singing Happy Birthday especially for Braden. Then we will head over to the Mike the Tiger habitat for some catered VooDoo BBQ, desserts, and treats - the kids will love the Tiger cage - it's a HUGE habitat!

Thanks for the continued prayers... mommy is in shoulder re-hab (yay, no surgery) and will be headed to her national advisory board meeting and then the national convention next week, leaving daddy to play "single father". As soon as mommy gets home, daddy is off to his national convention (strangely, the exact same city mommy will be in the week prior!), leaving mommy to play "single parent". Pray for us to have the additional strength we will need to do it alone, and pray that Braden continues to heal well.

Our thanks and love,
Braden Wilson & his parents!